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08/25/09 08:55 AM

"can pelvic floor disorders cause feeling like you have to go very often? "
Asked By: krnhersh  

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my mom is 85-has had diabeties for over 25 yrs- no longer takes injections,just oral meds . she has been told she has a dropped pelvic floor-she has had 3 kids, she also doesnt eat as much as she should-gets very frightened and fears the worst she has a great deal of pain, doesnt take pain med. body react s badly to many medications-she fears all these body reactions- however, she lives alone, someone comes in almost everyday to help her cook, clean,shop, and I am close by andhelping as much as I can- she doesnt use a wheelchair-does use a walker outside- she is weak, a bit shaky, feels miserable and in so much pain- I guess I just dont know what to say or do- she is living in the apt that we grew up in- over 50 yrs- doesnt want assisted living- i dont even know what to ask-difficult to deal with because the glass has always been half empty, never half full. disregard this post im? just so frustrated

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08/27/09 03:24 PM

To answer your question - yes, pelvic floor disorders can cause feelings of frequent urination & may have frequent infections. 85 years old and history of 3 births - gravity has taken its toll! I would recommend a GYN appointment for a full evaluation. The other issue is the grief of watching our parents age & our need to become the "parent" for their health & safety. Although you have household help for your mother, her increased weakness & pain put her at risk for falls when she is alone. Giving up independence is very difficult. If assisted living is a viable option - start looking around now - many have long waiting lists. Take your Mother with you - make her as much of the decision process as possible. Her physician may also make a referral to a social worker or visit your local agency on aging for additional resources that will help you explore options for your situation. Be aware of taking care of the care taker also (that's you!) You can't help if you are not well yourself. This is a challenging time for all - but know that you are not alone and there are a lot of resources out there to help. Find and use them.
Answered By: Beth McKinzie
Accreditations: RN, BSN, CDE
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