The short answer to your question is diabetes does not have to ruin your brother's future. It is up to him, however. You did not say what type he is but either way, good diabetes management is the key to him staying healthy and living long. If he sees his doctors, ask questions when he's unsure, get help with a meal plan tailored to his needs, take whatever meds he is prescribed, exercise, and accept support when needed, there is no reason for him not to live a healthy life and maybe even help others with diabetes once he becomes a doctor. Potential complications are a fact of the diabetes life, so as soon as he thinks something is wrong, he should seek his doctor's advice to help keep complications at bay.
We have loads of examples of people here who are living with diabetes successfully. Check out our video section to see. There are books on the dLife Bookshelf that might help. There is our support forum where either you or he - or both - can go to find others who can commiserate. And of course there is dLifeTV. Check our schedule for show times.
He's blessed to have you to help care for him. How this disease plays out for him, for the most part, lies in his hands.
Good health to you both.
*** All information contained on dLife.com is intended for informational and educational purposes only. Our Expert Q&A is not intended to be a replacement or substitute for consultation with a qualified medical professional or for professional medical advice related to diabetes or another medical condition. Please contact your physician or medical professional with any questions and concerns about your medical condition.
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