Is there specific etiquette for thanking someone whose quick thinking and kindness kept you from falling flat on your face during a low? Are there any written, or unwritten, rules for this? Should I send flowers or a note? Maybe baked goods are appropriate, since that's what really saved me. I guess I should ask my ever proper Great Aunt Lyn for suggestions. She's better with social graces than Peggy Post and Miss Manners combined.
As a type 2 diabetic, I never had to worry about lows until I started insulin last year. Then, when they hit, it wasn't anything too bad or too low, and I always enjoyed the excuse for eating candy. Besides, they always seemed to strike in a controlled setting, like my office or living room, just steps away from a handy juice box.
Now that I'm in my ninth month of pregnancy, the lows are starting to hit with a vengeance. It's actually a good sign and means that the crazy insulin-resistance hormones are starting to subside and I'll get to meet my little boy soon. (Just typing that made him jump around, so I have to assume he's excited too! Besides, he's getting mighty cramped in there!)
So here's what happened. To get my after-breakfast numbers right, I need a lot of insulin. Like 1 unit of Humalog for every 2 grams of carbs. However, this tends to leave me low at the three hour mark. Recognizing this pattern, I've started making sure I get a fruit and protein snack in every morning. On the day in question, it was fresh pineapple and cottage cheese, chased with a handful of almonds.
Now, my father-in-law has a lot of health problems-dementia and tremors topping the list. Not too steady on his feet, he took a tumble down cement stairs the other day, cutting himself up in a half dozen places. My worrywart husband is convinced one of the cuts is going to get infected and since I work from home, I get to take him to the doctor.
When we get there, he's too unstable to sit on the examination table, so he sits in the chair on the side and I get to sit in the patient's spot (for the third time in two days, no less, but who's counting). For once it was a good thing I was on the table. Kelly, the LPN, comes in to examine his cuts and bruises. As she's giving me wound care instructions, I start to get a little woozy. It has nothing to do with the blood on display, either.
When I stood up to get his paperwork to leave, the room gets really hot and starts spinning. Kelly looks at me and says, "You look a little peeked, why don't you lay down." So I take my blood sugar, and its only 73, which frankly is nothing compared to the 45s I've been seeing lately, yet feels so much worse.
I grab a juice box from my purse, fumble with the straw and finally suck it all down in two big slurps. Meanwhile, Kelly goes and gets me cookies while I lay there on the table. I have to say, they were the best cookies I've ever had.
A few minutes later, the color returned to my face. I was able to sit up, then walk, then drive (straight across the street to Wendy's for a Frosty). I know it's Kelly's job to care for patients, but I feel more than a bit silly considering it wasn't even my appointment. I'm very grateful that it happened at the doctor's office and not the mall.
So what's the appropriate way to thank her? A Blogabetes shout out hardly seems like thanks enough.


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I worked in nursing for about 20 years, and the thank yous that were enjoyed the most were: 1. a letter to my boss pointing out how I went above and beyond...it helps with raises. or
2: flowers( can be very small from grocery store). or
3, a treat to eat that the whole office ends up sharing( no matter who is given it , everyone else seems to have more than the recipient).
and in your case if you send her a picture of the baby when he is born she will cherish it.
I was newly diagnosed this spring. I began walking faithfully every morning, but one morning I stopped to talk with my neighbor and.. hadn't experienced any lows... until that morning. I told her I had to get home - fast - and please call my husband to come and pick me up (only 1/2 mile from home). She did better than that and I'm so grateful. Within a couple minutes she'd pushed her babies into the car and picked up my dog and I and got us home - fast! I now carry individually wrapped lifesavers with me... almost always!
Oh, by the way, I thanked her with meals and more this month when she ended up in the hospital with pneumonia!
Hi Rebecca,
I am a type 2 and was just diagnosed at the end of September. Due to some very serious complications my doctor wants me to stay under very tight control. I am not used to low blood sugars very often, but it has come up more than I would like to see it. I was at the grocery store after having done other shopping at the mall. I started feeling sweaty and had no energy to push the cart around. I thought I could make it to my car just fine. I carry a little cup of peanut butter in there, but had run out of the candy in my purse. When I tried to put my groceries on the counter it was really hard to move. But when I tried to write the check I couldn't think very well. I was perspiring heavily and breathing quite rapidly. The clerk looked at me and asked if I was having a low blood sugar. I nodded and she said she was a diabetic too. She got some candy for me and opened it and took me to a bench by the wall. she helped me to write out the check, bagged everything and got my cart over to me. She talked to me all the time it was going on. She told me to just sit there and she would keep a watch out for me. She was so kind and helpful. She was leaving for a vacation to include the holidays so I went to see the manager the next time I was in the store. I told him how much she had helped me and how caring she was. I also filled out a thank you to go in her file. The manager said it would be a big plus for her when evaluation and raise time came around.
I check my blood sugars up to five times a day and keep a daily journal of everything that goes into my mouth. My doctor also asked me to write anything in there on the days that my blood sugar doesn't stay stable. It seems a lot of different things have their own effects.
This has happened while I was sitting in the dentist's chair too. He gave me a juice box and time to recoup. An awful lot of people are really understanding when we are in need.
Thanks for writing about this.