In trying to raise money for diabetes research, I've definitely noticed the effect of our declining economy. People just don't have money to give this year. 

With a month left before our team assembles for the Walk to Cure Diabetes, I've reached the stage of our JDRF fundraising campaign where I get a little desperate. When just about every person, place or thing in my periphery is fair game.

For example, driving home from a soccer game and crossing the Delaware River toll bridge. Hmm, I thought. Tolls.

I sent out an email the next morning to the toll bridge commission, asking if they would consider working with JDRF for a one-day collection. There are thousands of children and adults in our area living with this terrible disease, I said. This particular toll bridge is 75 cents. Wouldn't people be inclined to just give a dollar and allow the toll booth operator to "Keep the Change for a Cure?" We can have signs that say "A Quarter for a Cure," I continued in my pitch to the director of communications.

In the past month, I've sent out similar proposals to many businesses and groups. Most of the time (especially this year) my requests are just ignored. Not even a "sorry, we can't assist you at this time" courtesy email. I'm not holding my breath on a response from the New Jersey Devils hockey team or the New York Giants.

So, I was indeed surprised to get a response from the toll bridge commission. Even more surprised that the response did not begin with "sorry" or "we regret." It was actually promising.

The director of communications thanked me for contacting them regarding using the toll-collection system to raise money for diabetes research and mentioned that he was currently researching my idea. It wouldn't take long, he added.

I responded:

Thanks so much for giving the idea consideration. I know the idea is a bit unorthodox, but just think of the impact it could have on a disease that is becoming an epidemic. If there is any information I can provide to assist in your decision, please don't hesitate to ask.

Best,

Carey

But then I didn't hear anything for about five days and I grew antsy.

Hi. Just checking in to see if you have any news regarding the JDRF fundraising idea as the Walk to Cure Diabetes is approaching soon. From trying to raise money for my son for five years now, I know all too well that the easy response would be "no." I realize it would take a bit of work on your part and on the part of your toll-booth collectors. Please understand that this would be a huge morale boost for our team as it's been a rather disappointing fundraising campaign this year. I've even thought of a catchy little slogan: "Diabetes - It Takes a Toll." Thanks so much.

In response, he agreed that it would be easy to say "no," but the request needed to be thoroughly researched. He had already put in a query to the International Bridge, Tunnel and Turnpike Association, he still needed to examine the commission's bond covenants and their federal compact (whatever that means). One final note, he added.

My daughter is a juvenile diabetic.