Inspiration And Expert Advice: Expert Columns
To Tell or Not to Tell
By Janis Roszler, RD, CDE, LD/N
Mike was excited about his date. He looked great, splashed on some cologne, and was on his way. He was meeting Susan, a blind date he had met on the Internet. When he arrived at the restaurant, he was thrilled to see that Susan surpassed his expectations – she was stunning. They went inside, ordered a few drinks and began to enjoy a great conversation.
Their food was delayed, but Mike didn’t care. He continued to talk with Susan, totally engrossed in all that she had to say. And then he woke up. It was dark out and Mike found himself tangled in the bushes outside of the eatery. His shirt was torn, wallet was gone, and watch and cell phone were missing. What had happened?
He pieced the evening back together with the help of the bartender inside. The blood sugar lowering effect of the alcohol, combined with the delayed meal, had sent his glucose levels spiraling downward. Mike hadn’t mentioned his diabetes to Susan, since they had just met, but he was also not wearing a medical I.D. bracelet that could have provided a possible cause for his behavior.
When Mike’s hypoglycemia caused him to suddenly act intoxicated and aggressive, Susan had no idea that there might be a medical issue. She became frightened and asked a gentleman at the bar to help protect her. The man threw Mike out then left with Susan. Mike called to explain, but Susan wanted no part of him or his diabetes.
Who Do You Tell…and Who Don’t You Tell?
Whom should you tell about your diabetes? Here are several people who may need to know:
Who does NOT need to know?
You don’t have to share your diabetes with everyone, but you must be prepared for emergencies, especially when you plan on being around people who don’t know. Many individuals with diabetes don’t wear medical identification. They may keep a card in their wallet or purse, but those items aren’t always close by. Fortunately, a variety of medical alert bracelets, ranging from gold and silver to Velcro and gemstone, are now available.
Mike is sorry that he wasn’t more attentive to his eating needs that evening. And he regrets not wearing medical identification, which would have alerted those nearby to help him. He has also decided to stop meeting women on the Internet… but that is another story.
Janis Roszler, RD, CDE, LD/N